Always love it when people argue back and then say at the end 'leave me alone'. Like you have the right to speak and nobody has the right to reply. YOU commented first and what? I should just be quiet and accept everything you say? As for Whoopi, I think you need to look deeper than the surface level as to why there was a backlash against her.
And nobody is calling you antisemitic. The character played by Murphy was a superficial stereotype created to provoke. Every word lacked depth. It was like, here's an argument, but we're not going to explore anything deeper than this insult.
And I won't even bother addressing your self-loathing. That's your issue, not mine.