I liked this but I dont think it all boils down to homoerotic thoughts. I simply dislike aspects of my body and hate stripping off in front of people. Being at the beach or swimming and standing half naked doesnt make me uncomfortable because I have feelings for other men or scared I’ll be aroused by them. That whole train of thought, it’s very linear in your thinking. I’m sure body issues, abuse or whole array of other reasons are at play.
Apart from that, top article and a very interesting read.